A personal dating service with an emphasis on safety

Welcome to Attractive Partners, an exclusive and traditional dating agency, that has become one of the UK’s leading dating companies over many years, by offering outstanding personal service, privacy, confidentiality and caring for our clients to a standard that few others could achieve.

I have tried online Dating but it isn’t for me because…

I’d like to find a company that answers their phone and provides great service at a venue and location that is convenient to me.

Our Membership Advisers are available to speak to 7 days a week and happy to be contacted by telephone on 0800 644 4140 from 9am until 9pm each day, including most Bank Holidays. We are also happy to meet you in your own home if you prefer.

I’m in a professional career and need confidentiality, I cannot afford to have my personal details and photographs on a busy, easily accessed, online dating website or app.

As a client your personal details or photographs cannot be accessed by others without your permission.

I am not meeting the right calibre of potential partner online, there are so many people who aren’t who they purport to be.

We carefully vet each and every single member in our database so you can rest assured you will be meeting only people well known to us, who have been interviewed and ID validated.

I want my matches to have been vetted for me and to know that their details are accurate and their photos are all real and recent.

We ensure our database uses only recent and up to date photographs. We also ensure that all of our members are carefully checked by one of the most comprehensive authentication and verification systems available globally.

I have heard that online dating crime is one of the fastest growing crime categories in the UK, I need to be protected from that.

By using a dating agency like Attractive Partners, that has carefully vetted and ID validated every member, you would be significantly safer than using online dating websites or dating apps. 

I want to look at professionally created profiles of my potential dates and work with an expert who knows dating and can guide me through.

All of our memberships come with a professionally created profile using the most recent available photographs (often taken by us). You will have the support of one of our Personal Matchmakers to guide you through that jungle that dating has become, throughout your Membership.

Let’s Find Out A Little More About Each Other…


Smart and successful, you have worked hard to create a great lifestyle. In others, you appreciate strength of character, achievement, and a sense of adventure. You love to be around intelligent, witty people who can inspire you in one moment, and make you laugh out loud in the next.


We understand that a great relationship is part of the recipe for an exciting and fulfilling life. We know how important it is for that relationship to be in keeping with the authentic way you live your life: a true meeting of equals – emotionally, intellectually and, for some, financially.

Find Out What Makes Our Team So Proud

We love finding that special someone for our clients. We have a small hand bell in the office that’s been here since the day that I started in 2008. We still always ring it each time we get the good news of a match going really well and someone telling us they’ve found love. I will never tire of hearing that bell being rung!

Paula Gotch

Operations Director

A Statement By The Dating Agency Association

Attractive Partners is one of the original founding members of our Dating Agency Association and have had a long standing reputation for being one of the UK’s most respected and popular matchmaking companies.

Our Senior Membership Advisers

Meet our Membership Advisers: Julie Lazurus, Tracey Cater and Elizabeth Hall, who handle most of our new membership enquiries. Tracey, Julie and Elizabeth have years of combined experience in helping people of all ages find the dating solution most suited to their hopes and needs.

They are all highly respected experts within the matchmaking world, passionate about helping others find love but perhaps most importantly, very nice people to deal with as you discover whether a membership with Attractive Partners could be the right way forward for you.

For an informal chat about how joining Attractive Partners could transform your personal life call Julie, Tracey or Elizabeth on 0800 644 4140.

Tracey Cater


Prior to becoming our Senior Membership Adviser, Tracey Cater, who joined us in 2007, has served Attractive Partners as a Matchmaker, Senior Matchmaker and our Matchmaking Team Manager, so she really knows our products, our competitors and the marketplace very well and there really isn’t anyone more suitable or knowledgeable to talk to than her.



Kerry has become somewhat of a star within the world of dating and personal introductions since moving from her career in recruitment in 2006.

Kerry’s tireless work ethic, high emotional intelligence and critical listening skills are just a few of the qualities that every one of her clients benefit from during their search for love.

Alex - Membership Adviser Attractive Partners


Coming up to her 7th year working in the dating industry and has already gained experience as a Personal Matchmaker, Matchmaking Team Manager, Headhunting Specialist and Membership Adviser. She has proudly brought many clients together in those years and now utilises her skills to advise new clients on our personal matchmaking service. Alexandra is very down-to-earth, empathetic and friendly, she will be happy to talk things through with you for as long as it takes.

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