You know the one characteristic that women in most parts of the world find most attractive?
It is self-confidence.
Self-confidence is the trait that women find most attractive in a man. Not his physical appearance. Not his financial status. Confidence.
So what even is self-confidence?
It is plain and simple being comfortable with whom you are as a man and simply going for what you want.
When a woman meets a man who is comfortable being himself, expressing himself and knows himself then they can feel it. They can’t help but feeling drawn to it and this is because they find it irresistibly attractive.
The sad truth is that there are many men out there today who are sadly lacking in self-confidence.
If you don’t even have the confidence to talk to a beautiful woman, to be bold with her then you are never going to really meet a woman you can connect with and end up potentially having a meaningful relationship with in the future.
So how can you get this self-confidence women find irresistible?
- Appearance – It’s true, if you look great then you are going to feel great. It also shows a woman that you care enough about yourself to take pride in your appearance. It’s not hard to take some basic grooming procedures with your hair, nails and basic hygiene.
- Exercise – Not only does exercise make you feel good, it shows that you care about your body and have respect for yourself. Again, it comes back to the first point. If you look good you’ll feel good.
- Pump yourself up – Have you ever paid attention to the voice in your head? Once you do you’d be surprised how much negative self-talk you engage in and don’t make the mistake of thinking this doesn’t affect your self-esteem because it does. Pay attention to this and when you catch yourself chatting negatively, reframe it to something positive about yourself and you’ll notice gradually the effect it has on your self-esteem.
Start paying attention to this aspect of your personality and work on building your self-confidence. It takes time but it’s worth it long term.