Do you ever wonder why you are still single?

If you have been single for a long time then this is a question you have probably thought about. However, you don’t have to stay single for the rest of your life and there are many options for changing your current circumstances.

While there are many reasons why someone could remain single for a long time, there are a few that we find are common.

  1. Expectations are too high – Some people just have expectations that are far too high. You may have expectations that are simply unrealistic and this is why you are still single. Perhaps you have this idea in mind of who your ideal partner should be, what they should be like and it’s totally unrealistic. For example, your own expectations need to match what you expect in a partner and not demand something of them that is simply unrealistic.
  1. Unable to emotionally invest in someone – For any real connections to be made, for any real relationship to develop, you need to be able to emotionally invest in that person. You can’t expect them to reveal intimate details about themselves if you are not willing to do the same.
  1. Low self-esteem – If you have a poor opinion of yourself or think negatively of yourself then you are going to stay single for a long time. No man or woman wants to be with a partner who has a low opinion of who they are as a person.

If you have remained single for a long time now even though you have tried to find a partner then the above reasons listed above may help to explain your current situation. If you struggle with finding a partner then elite personal introductions and matchmaking could be what you need.